How do u treat a guy?

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I love guys, I really do. I'm not afraid to admit that I am man hungry; I don't see anything wrong with being a ------ girl...I just would not bring it up in the first date or email before getting to know a guy.

I know not all transgender women exactly appreciate some of the types of things guys tend to say when they first talk to us, mostly referring to ---. But how far do we go when getting our point across? Yea of course there are gonna be some crass emails in our inboxes from time to time, but what about a guy who is trying to meet a Transgender person for the first time, and unknowingly says something that may offend someone? I've seen more than a few guys get ripped in the forums and have since stayed away...poor guys.

If transgender women continue to scare them away, then how are they going to learn how to treat us? I know for me, I expect to be treated respectfully; but I feel men have been ogling women since the beginning of time. So what can we do? Some are actually nice who just dont know any better Maybe we could help them learn how to talk to us, so that in the future they may have better luck in finding someone. I think it is ok to talk about --- with a girl, as long as it is at the right time for her and in moderation. I'm a ------ girl...and once a month I am a Mcdonald's girl. It's all in the moderation
Toodles
-Britney

[izeman]

`What a refreshing post and a great attitude, I have to agree there are many men who for whatever reason think it is ok to send dirty messages to someone they never even met or chatted with, for me, thats simply not right, no matter if the message is to a transgender girl or any gender, its bad manners and very unpleasent. At the end of the day, whoever you send a message to, its all about respect and good manners. I personally would never dream of doing such a thing, i am as ------ and broad minded as anyone, but as you say that sort of talk is for the right time and place, nothing wrong with a bit of naughty chat when you know the person and what he or she finds acceptable.

But as you say hun, maybe some women should take a deep breath before ripping into a guy who says the wrong thing without knowing it, ( not including dirty talk ). maybe a simple " i'm not happy to talk like that" or politely point out his mistake, after all, some of us men actualy do care and realy dont mean to offend, but we choose the wrong words from time to time.

thanks for your post hun, i hope both men and women will think about what you wrote, and that can only help us all.

"understanding is the only answer to the problems of the world"

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`Thank Izeman! I think you are right; There ARE a lot of guys who do care, sometimes people just need to be given a fair chance
-Brit
xoxo